Rules are framed by people to rule over themselves, then why a lot of people don’t follow the rules???
So, on what basis the rules are formed. I am not writing about laws framed by the government but about the personal values which we frame ourselves to rule over ourselves. Everybody follows a certain set of rules, I call them policy (even my brother used to make fun of me, whenever I say “it’s my policy”, he used to say “aahh, yes LIC policy). So, how and when do these policies are formed, what influences one’s moral values, is there some common things that form the basics like family, friends, way of thinking, living conditions and locality they live in.
“Each person frames his own laws to govern himself”. I have changed my rules to suit my objectives, with time, with experience and by reading books and hearing others experience. For me it has always been like if you don’t face any dire consequences or if you are not going to spoil someone’s life directly then its fine to carry on your work. For example using these unlicensed software. Yes, I am cheating someone in their business, I cannot justify it anyway but I personally never feel as though I am cheating someone. As long as I feel that way, I have a perfect frame of rules to follow for myself.
3 comments:
I agree with you Sankar, rules made by us are just for our convenience, to make our life better. tomorrow if u feel the rule u ve been following for years has no value and is bothering u, then u r definitely going to change it.
So as you said as long as YOU feel its right and u r not hurting others directly with ur policy, then we are all fine....
Keep blogging...
Yeah I too agree with you on the rules...this word is so relative...everybody cant have the same set of rules...and even a single person will not be able to have the same set of rules for all his life..rules get tweaked with changes that happen around you...so there you go....good post :)
thanks for ur comments guys
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